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Wednesday, 18 November 2009

  • 我有一個問題

     

    在想日研課的論文題目的時間

    對自己引起了一連串的問題

    看了一篇寫愛情的文章後更不明白了

              "altruism at the centre of love ... concern with what is good for them (another person) directs

               our actions just as readily as concern with what is good for us..."

               "but altruism sometimes gets a bad name...in which people, especially women,

                 can 'love too much' "

    原來, 愛情從很久以前

    其中一方愛太多是很平常的事

    我在想為什麼

     

    從頭開始想

    i have always been told that when acting out of love, i should never expect anything for return

    that's called unconditional love

    but between two people, in a relationship, is that unconditional love or not?

     

    if yes, whenever i am acting out for the good of my loved one

    i shall not think of getting any person who will act out of love for me because of what i have done for him

    if so, it's damn difficult but not impossible

     

    if not,

    then perhaps this explains why one in the relationship is thought of being love too much

    we do what we think will make the other happy/loved

    but the other perhaps have another concept of how to express their feelings/make us happy

    this difference creates the situation where one is seen as love too much

     

    but in fact,

    female's and male's concept of being loved/happy is so very different

    there is bound to be one that gets hurt in the relationship

    thought of love too much

    how painful is that?


    personal application into the theory...

    somehow

    educated by whoever

    or just the person i am

    when i love you or miss you

    i will say it

    no matter if i was standing right next to you

    or that i have just left you 2 minutes ago

    i will say it

    'cause this is my belief of expressing my immediate feelings

    that's the only way of dealing with such feelings

    those feelings that will make my heart leaps, aches and my tears to roll down in 1 second

    because i just want to make sure you know i love you and miss you every second since i fell in love for you

    need to ensure you understand and feel it fully in case i die tonight

    it hurts

    that i have to ask

    i dont know if it is merely because our differences in concepts of expressing love

    or feelings are just too difficult to say aloud

     

    that's the story behind

    " it's scary to know that i value you so much "

     

    so anyone wants to enlighten me?

    'cause im puzzled

    in_the_morning

     

     

Tuesday, 17 November 2009

  • too perfect to be true

     

    冬天了

    我愛

    可是今年沒有wongsiufung的陪伴, 也沒有家人的陪伴, 很久沒這樣了


    想過來

    我也太幸運了

    一回來就找到了wongsiufung

    以前的假期都是跟家人或朋友

    太不同了

     

    很久沒有這麼早就從學校回家

    慢慢走回家

    想了一大堆有的沒的

    雜亂的

    奇怪


    看不了流星雨了

    可是你會實踐我那小小的諾言

    對吧?

    我相信你

     

    然後

    就想到

    當初

    認識了只不過是兩三個月

    就敗給感覺這個東西了

    我吶...

    只有跟著

    直覺跟感覺

    現在想一想

    感覺自己很幸福

    可是

    只是一年

    如果想走一輩子的話

    只有時間能告訴我們

     

    從來不賭的我

    這次還賭得蠻大的嘛

     

    but i have a man

    who has poured out his heart for me

    all i want to do

    is to give him all the love i have

     

    448368181_8e4c188b5e_o

     

Sunday, 15 November 2009

  • 在想什麼?

     

    too much on my mind

    not able to organize in sensible way


    快跟著我一起保護地球 從今以後
    不用想太多 只要大聲說 Oh yeah

     

    我想做的 永遠都跟不上改變
    改變需要勇氣面對

     

    不知道該說什麼 讓你懂
    希望時間能夠 替我說

     

    就決定了 我們要用微笑面對
    就算惡夢包圍整個世界
    請別走開 愛一直在
    你身邊

     

Tuesday, 03 November 2009

  • too late

     

     

    在我想分享自己生日的快樂

    感謝你們給我的

    以前

     

    正能量用完了

     

    明天

    打算去買幾張專輯

    試著把自己找回來

    要不

     

    劉亦羲要消失了

     

    你們都錯了

     

    我火大了

     

    天蠍的恨是沒有中間點的

    只有極點

     

    對於這廿一的考驗

    我快捱不住

     

Friday, 16 October 2009

  • alive not dead

     

    跟好友聊了一陣子後

    突然感覺很有活著的感覺

    跟話題有關

           感覺自己很渺小

           不知自己未來要追求的是什麼

                                                           大概是這樣


    大概是過了幾天的情緒低潮

    是往上的時候了

    跟 菇 相反的

    她過了四天的興奮

    進入了醒覺期

    多無助的感覺

    我想我也有過

    進化是困難的

    是無助的

    只有時間才可能再會有值得的感覺

    人都是這樣

    誰又會是真的屬於一個地方呢?

    一直都是身邊的人和事把一個人留在一個地方

    若可把這些都放下, 或放進口袋一起離開

    人都是周圍走

    去看看世界吧



     

    羨慕一峰

    =)


    題外話

    sammi若真的把演唱會變成福音音樂會

    我還是想去聽

    聽過sammi moov live的話

    想你會明白

    用心唱的

    都是動聽的



     

    再題外話

    kary的新專輯

    我聽了一遍

    我現在去買



     


     

    閉上眼聽的歌 (也需要, 因為片子不太好 )

     

    這天蠍的聲音, 不得了

     

    重溫一下, 等不了

     

     

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